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Perry J. Greenbaum 🇨🇦 🦜's avatar

Thank you, Veronilka, for another excellent essay on what I believe is important ideas on making us more Human. I am especially glad to read about the necessity of our Emotions, which need to come out of the closet. All of them.

I have been fighting a lonely fight for 30

years, after my own personal awakening through writing and reading, saying our Emotions are part of who we are. We should not fear or manage or bury them (only to resurface), but appreciate and understand them. Our society still has a long way to go to accepting Human Emotions, and seeing how they are essential to us.

And if health is on a continuum, and I agree it is, the suppression of one aspect that makes us Human explains a high degree of mental dis-ease in our society.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

What an important chapter, I had so many thoughts as I read this, and found myself wishing Substack had an internal notes function so I could highlight and comment right into the text!

I thought about my mom quite a bit throughout. She became a therapist herself because “I didn’t understand emotions and wanted to know why humans have them.” My brother and I always scratched our heads at this Spock-like proclamation, as if our mom could only experience/understand emotion through some cognitive function. Now, later in life, we’re pretty sure she (and other family members) have high functioning autism and she was legitimately not able to connect to another’s experience through empathy. In a strange way, this may’ve made her an even better therapist but often made a sense of feeling “seen” as her daughter a bit muddy.

As someone whose entire experience of life is watery and sensual (thank you for identifying the many beyond the big 5!) I wholly embrace emotion as vital to saludogenesis!

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